But ask us, an we'll tell you the answer, You shouldn't do it. Now we're not Ewing uptight or prejudiced about the male species and their ways. But that's just the way stolen glances and love works. Guys and girls are different in many ways. And especially when it comes to a relationship great guys like good chase. When you tell a guy you like him Xx not really disappointing, but a guy would never understand how special you are. Nor would he understand how much he needs you until he doesn't have you. It's too easy, like a free brochure that you get in your mailbox now and then.
It goes trait to the bin. If you like a guy, and want him to stick around, you need to make him like you back before you even ask him out. Its quite pointless to walk up to a guy and tell him you like him. And the conversation's going to sound like this. Girl (nervous): Hire I like you, and I was wondering if we code go out sometime... Boy (sheepish): Ooh, oh... Kay... Sweet! Girl (relieved): How about we go out sometime? Boy (happy): Yeah, sure, how about Saturday night? And then, the girl's happy and the boys happy too. And the boys goes to his friends.
He learns to brag. Boy (boastful): Herr check this out. That that girl we keep bumping into, you know, the girl with the awesome boobs, she just asked me out. Friends (in awe): Oh, yeah?! That's hot, dude... O what are you goanna do? Lay her this weekend? Boy (Check magnet): Ha ha ha ha... We'll find out, won't we...? The bib scores, looks good in front of his friends, get a date and a swollen ego and thinks he's a chick magnet. The girl may be very sweet, but he doesn't care. All he cares about is the fact that the girl asked him out.
So he must be charming, sexy and could get any girl he wanted. Everyone else soon finds out the girl asked out the guy out. The girl appears needy and easy to get. The guy looks like a rock star. You see, it's easy to ask a guy out. But when you do that, almost all guys lose the point. He won't realize hat a nice girl asked him out, he'll assume he's really good and all girls will love him. Guys make their own lives harder, but they like it the way it is. Learn to play hard to get and guys, as much as they hate it, will love you for it.
Of course, a girl can ask a guy out and the relationship may even go very far on the road of happy love. But in most cases, it doesn't work in the girl's favor. Men love the idea of having women swooning over them. Why do you think Bond is such a big hit? For his well cut suits? And what about the axe effects? While guys may feel relieved to cut straight to the chase, or in the case even skip he chase completely, they won't add you into the equation. For a guy that moment when you ask him out isn't a chapter in the book Of romance. It's the first step towards realizing how sexy he is!
Now many guys may disagree and claim that they love confident woman whoosh the cones to walk up to a guy and ask him out. But this isn't always the case. At the end of the day, let's face it. All a girl has to do is drop a few signs and if a guy does like her back, he'll probably pop the question even before the girl thinks it. Less safer, and an easier way to get to know if a guy likes you, sans the embarrassment of a guy turning oh down. [ The real truth] So can a girl ask out a guy ever? There's just one type of guy where a girl asking a guy out is the only way forward.
If you've fallen for a cute shy guy. These guys are nice, but they're just so shy and awkward, it's embarrassing! You can walk past them with a marching band singing "she's in love with you" and the guy might just sniffle and try to slip behind the wallpaper. Do curfews keep teens out of trouble ? Even with a curfew teens will do what they want to do. If that means sneaking out, lying or skipping school or etc. Sneaking out gives a teen a thrill and like they are inconvertible. That just sakes them more likely to do much more dangerous stuff.
Also, having a curfew just adds stress on teen, because they will freak out about running late and traffic causing them to be late Do curfews keep teens out of trouble? F anyone says that kids will be too scared so sneak out, well wouldn't they be to break an actual law? Does curfew real keep teens out of trouble? Curfews give teens the chance to change and it works because they have less time out to cause the trouble and get Pregnant do vandalism, go stealing take drugs, smoke Cigarettes, and have under age sex get involved. With the police and Intimidating Behavior.
That's the reason many people believe curfews are a good idea however giving your child a curfew is not going to stop them from doing all this stuff. They may not do it during the night or during their curfew but they may be doing it at day time or even skip school and go get in trouble. Having a curfew does not decrease crimes. Numerous articles by credible sources such as the (National Center for Policy Analysis, the Center on Juvenile and Criminal Justice, and the US Department of Justice) all unanimously agree that curfew, in fact, does NOT lower young crime rates of any kind. Does curfews keep teens out of trouble?
Also, I found that the amount of arrests in young for breaking curfew greatly outnumbers the amount of arrests in young for any other crime in young. All of this goes to show that curfews in fact have no effect, and that teaching young teens to have morals and know what is right and what is wrong is greatly more effective than curfews. I've had my share of sneaking out, and staying out WAY past the time my parents set before me. It's only because if you say I can't do something, want to prove everyone wrong and say that I can do that, and you can't do anything to stop me.